ViHart's new video, literally called "On Gender," describes an experience that's pretty similar to my experience of being a teenager with no strong sense of affinity for gender. It's not quite the same -- I do identify with the labels agender, genderqueer, and nonbinary, although my comfort with them and my sense of what that means sounds similar to her[1. She made it pretty clear in the video she doesn't care what pronouns are used for her -- defaulting to "she" because I feel kind of squicky about imposing proactively nongender word choice on someone who expressed an active apathy towards that kind of personal politics.] description of why she isn't. So, anyway, here's that.